You know, I have been around stupid people in my life but damn.
Why is it that people date assholes then bitch about them being assholes and then say, "All Woman are bitches or all men are assholes" Um, how do you know have you dated all of them on the planet? and doesn't it take two people to have a relationship? So, if they are that way then why are you still with them? is it not just as much of that person's fault for staying in the relationship in the first place? Dah!! (oh, don't worry this does NOT refer to my relationship with Shawn this is in referral to dumb people that I have met over the years. I can understand if you grow apart and need to go your separate ways, but why stay with someone out of fear of being alone?
I met this female last night who came into the bar with this MORON and she was very financially well off. He sat there and just kept ordering whatever he wanted, ran her bill up to 1,200 dollars (yes in liquor) and she said NOTHING! OK, I can see you going out and buying a few drinks but ordering something just because you know that person will allow it? and She thinks he loves her? My man won't even go out on my dollar! He may get a six pack and bring it home and drink it there, and he asks first. This asshole did not ask for shit! But yet she kept letting him do it. WHY???
Not just that but, why is it that people date dick-heads (male or female) don't watch for the signs, get involved, then get hurt and go what happened? Dah, like you did not know this? You know dating is to get to know a person. Just because you go out on a date with someone that does not mean you are in a serious relationship with them. Dating is to see if you have anything in common with that person and to take them out in a social setting to see how they treat other people and their reasoning. Just because they are nice to you does not mean you should date them. Where they nice or considerate and if they did get angry what was their reason behind their anger? Many people will be nice to the person they are on the date with to make a good impression but yet will treat everyone else like crap for no good reason. Don't people see that when the newness of the relationship has gone away that that will be the way they will get treated? DER!!! I don't get why people don't see it? Is it that hard to figure out? and personally I would rather be alone that to be with someone that treats me like shit!
For anyone who says " You don't know what it's like to be alone" I say to you, "Bullshit" I was alone for 7 1/2 years before I got into the relationship that I am in now. I have only had 5 boyfriends in my entire life. As for all of you that are out there that are single and trying to find the right person my hat is off to you.
Personally, if I were single it would be very depressing and because there are as many people out there that are screwed up and have fucked up views of relationships I think I would stay that way.
Or move to Europe where the culture is different and make an attempt there! Screw the culture here!
mood:  disappointed music: Vincent Price reciting Poems of Shelley |